The Trust Issue
Trust is like a piece of paper, once it’s been crumpled up, it can never be completely flattened out again. It can never be thin and perfect. It can never flutter beautifully and be new. It’s it’s used...
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Instincts
“Can I ask you something? Why don’t people trust their instincts? They sense something’s wrong. Someone’s walking too close behind them, yet they don’t cross the street. You knew something was wrong ....
View ArticleI Hate Aftercare
I don’t know how many times that I’ve recently told a new s-type or even a new D-type that aftercare is an important part of a scene. Some people may not need it at all, but it’s still important to...
View ArticleThe Honest Answer to A Hometown Form Letter
Hi, I know you’re new so I’m going to be blunt from the start. Don’t send those same emails out to chicks in town and hope to get a bite from a few. If you’re just looking to fuck, go ahead. Because...
View ArticleA BDSM Checklist
A checklist is extremely helpful to anyone involved in the BDSM community, especially those new to it. It’s simply a list of fetishes that you may or may not find interesting. With a good checklist,...
View ArticleSexual Fantasy
Wikipedia describes a sexual fantasy as “a mental image or pattern of thought that stirs a person’s sexuality and can create or enhance sexual arousal. A sexual fantasy resides entirely in a person’s...
View ArticleA is for Aftercare
A is for Aftercare: I never felt comfortable asking for aftercare. I was of the thought that if the D-type that I played with offered aftercare, then I would gladly accept it. I never wanted to tell...
View ArticleSex Toy Gun
Yesterday I was on my Fetlife account. I was scrolling through someone’s pictures. One popped up with the caption “Daddy’s new prize for me!” Her new prize was a bit. It was covered in some type of...
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